Monday, February 14, 2011

BLOG#2: WHY DO BOYS...? WHY DO GIRLS...?

BY: JAIME GUECO AND JEMUEL


Why do women say the opposite of what they feel?

In a relationship; misunderstanding, jealousy, fights are unavoidable. No matter how many anniversaries you’ve both shared. Like for an instance, guys tends to forgot our anniversary if were in a relationship. But we genuinely said sorry and promise to make it up to our partner next time. Afterwards, we’ll ask them if everything is fine. Then they’ll answer that their doing fine, even though their faces evidently saying not. Why do they have to keep their true feeling with us, especially if were in a relationship. Saying their all right, when their not sometimes make us(guys) irritated. They can say whatever they want to say to us, no matter how painful it is. As long as they’ll let us know. How can we know our mistake if they’ll just keep it from themselves?



girls:
-why do girls complain alot?
-why when we get into an argument the girl is always right?
-why do girls always get their way?
-why is it hard to say no to a girl?

In my opinion if girls want to be treated as equals they shouldn't act as if they can always get what they want and always get their way through arguing with men because we all know that us men have a soft side and that we cannot stay there and watch a girl cry or, whine or make those puppy eyes. a guy can never say no to that.



BY: CLARISSA  DELA CRUZ 



WHY DO BOYS TEASE GIRLS?
·       Guys tease girls because they want to hide that they like them. They poke a girl, call her names, and tease her but really, he does it to hide that he has a crush on that girl.
·       It's most likely because, that boy likes you, and instead of telling you, he teases you! 
·       Because they like girls and they want them to giggle and blush. They think its cute. But they might just be the joker and make everyone laugh and giggle. It also depends on the type of boy.
·       Young boys don't know how to flirt so they make fun to show the girl they like them, it usually backfires though.
WHY DO BOYS CHEAT?
·       Boys cheat because they may not be happy with the relationship. They may also cheat because they are not happy. Another reason is because the sex might not be good enough and they are looking for something better.
·       Some boys cheat because they're insecure.
·       Boys may cheat because they want to have sex and you’re just not ready...
WHY DO BOYS LOVE CARS?
·       Some men can't take their eyes off their cars. This can be so annoying to women who thinks cars are their rivals, the second woman. Like any relationship, it requires time. Often money and effort are delivered in the absence of demand. However, cars can't guarantee a comfort that relationships have. They are material things that can deteriorate and flies.
·       For some men, it is fulfilling to invest in cars. While getting profit out of it they feel satisfied. Looking at statistics, men have the highest number of visitors in online blogs of cars and asks the most number of inquiries about car sales and car models. And, for some of the male specie they may feel safer and less risky to pour themselves into a relationship with their cars. There is an absence of the risk of being rejected. This can be manifestly seen with their choices in jobs, search sites and friends.

WHY ARE MEN ADDICTED TO VIDEO GAMES?

·       It is because they were raised on them. A portion of their childhood were spent in front of a video game.
·       It’s an escape from people. If men had a stressful day, playing video games make them unwind and prevents punching people.
·       Men are almost always competitive on some level. Height, weight, and athletic ability really play no part in video games. In video games is like an equal field that they could battle fairly.
·       It is also their source of income. Some men place bets on whomever team wins.
·       It is their favorite past time.


BY: CATHERINE LEDESMA


now that we are living in a modern world, i can say that there is more equality now compared to before. well im not saying everything is equal now with gender issues but
somehow it already is. it actually depends on you, some women do not do this or that its cause they would look like a guy or people might think they are lesbian and vice versa 
with the males. so here are some questions and answer commonly ask by women about males. these are facts which happen to most women in real life. actually i am one of 
them as well. 

Why is that boys always go for the looks and appearance first or go for the "hot" girls ?
well its as simple as like this, Would somebody ugly catch your attention? I don't think so. I bet you would go for a guy who was 'hot' too. Unfortunately, looks do matter to some extent. 
Physical appearance is the first thing people see. It's what pulls you in to that person. I believe everyone here who basically says ''that's just how men are'' are stupid. Guys aren't the only ones that do this. Women do it too. You can't tell me that the first time a girl meets a guy she doesn't judge whether he'd be a potential mate by looks first. 
Looks and physical appearance is the first thing people go to when looking for a potential mate. Fortunately, looks and appearance is just a short term kind of thing. You attract a person by looking good. In the long term, personality and emotionally connection is what counts.
Unfortunately, it's true that a majority of teenage guys want sex because they are completely driven by hormones. However, there are some good guys out there who don't let their genitals lead their brains around. Those are the ones that girls always pass up to get with the jerk. You complain that guys always go for "hot" girls yet guys complain that girls always go for 'jerks'. It's not unusual that a guy would want sex, unless a guy is gay, or is not even remotely attracted to the girl, I would say there is a 90% chance he would take the opportunity to have sex if given it. Even the nice guys would, but a guy who respects you will not leave you if you say 'no'. Just because a guy wants sex does not mean that's all he's ever going to be thinking about in a relationship. It is actually possible for guys to have emotional depth and to think of sex as part of a loving relationship. For guys who are mature and understand that meaningful relationships need to be more than just sexual.

So in short.. PEOPLE (not just Men; Women do it too) go for looks first and then ''other things'' because it is part of human nature to go for things that we find visually appealing and beautiful.


Why do boys cheat?
well did you ever ask yourself that maybe its not his problem but yours? see, i am a female but im not siding with anyone i am just stating facts and looking at the bright side of everything that just maybe there is an actual reason for those actions. There are probably a hundred and one reasons why guys cheat. One common reason boyfriends cheat is because they feel something is missing in their current relationship. well here some reasons as to why boys cheat. 
1. HE ALREADY KNOWS YOU. when i say this, it means his bored with you, and you do the same thing every time. i am not saying you should be different all the time but make it fun and mysterious from time to time. you may be together for quite sometime but admit it sometimes you just want something new right? so think of it that way. 
2. YOURE A NAGGER. dont complain too much. you can complain once in a while but not always and not to be yacking about it every single day. 
3.HE LIKES ANOTHER GIRL. well in this case, ladies its not your fault anymore. maybe he just fallen out of love for you whether you like it or not you cannot do anything about it. 
4. ALL HE WANTS IS SEX AND YOU DONT. well this isnt true all the time but if this happens does not mean you have to give this to him. this just means that the guy is after your body and not you. 
there are actually more reasons but these are just a few. 

in conclusion, you see there is still gender roles in the modern world now, you may not see it but it is still there just not like before. 

WHY ARE BOYS ONLY SWEEET WHEN ITS AT THE COURTING STAGE?
Ø  because they want to “win the girl”. (they want a yes)
Ø  its to expensive to spend something big all the time
Ø  its boring to do it again and again
Ø  they put their best forward to impress the girl

WHY DO BOYS DON’T CRY INFRONT OF US GIRLS?
Ø  they think that others would think they are weak
Ø  they don’t want to show their soft side
Ø  they are not as emotional as girls
Ø  they don’t really cry for such small issues
Ø  they want to express on their own

WHY ARE GUYS SO PLAIN WHEN IT COMES TO FASHION?
            Well this does not apply for every guy.
Ø  they are not into fashion as much as girls are
Ø  they like it plain and simple

BY: 

GENEVA CANTOS


 BOYS:
1.     Why do boys cheat on their girlfriends & deny it?
·       because they probably want someone new or their girlfriend isn’t giving them what they want.
·       or maybe because they're too scared to say it's over with their girlfriend or they're just selfish and think they are god’s greatest gift to women.

2.     Why do boys like virgins?
·       some guys like virgins because they like the innocence, I guess and so like the thought of being the first.
·       he wants to be able to feel that he is the most important person in her life, and if a girl loses her virginity to said man, there is a stronger connection felt.

3.     Why do boys go with the pretty girls?
·       Boys always go for the pretty girls, they want to look popular with those girls and be considered cool cause they go out with the "cute" girls!
GIRLS:
1.     Why are girls so mean to other girls?
·       It's usually out of jealousy.  they're probably just insecure so they feel the need to talk about other girls behind their back to make themselves feel better.

2.     Why do girls think it’s alright to flirt?
·       Just for the attention. It’s their little self-esteem booster.
·       Maybe they think that when they flirt with guys, they will get the chance to capture his heart.

3.     Why do girls fall inlove so quickly?
·       Seriously, I think it's because girls are much more in tune with their emotions and feelings than guys are. Some people call it maturity, but I don't think that's quite it. I think part of it is because by design girls are natural care givers. That type of thing.

4.     Why do girls play hard to get?
·       To see how much the guy likes her (testing his patience & level of interest)
·       because due to social prejudice if a girl doesn’t play at least a little bit “hard to get” then she’s afraid he’ll think she’s easy and therefore the guy won’t take her seriously.





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